Thursday, June 18, 2009

Pastor Minix Sermon

Pastor Minix Sermon
1. You can't talk to a real woman any kind of way. She doesn't answer to just anything. There's two parts to this intrinsic and extrinsic. Intrinsic-wife without a husband, extrinsic- she is a wife before she has a husband. She's wife material even before he finds her. God is preparing her even before she meets him. She will be there to help you weather the ups and downs of life. She's Usually the one you have to think about how you are going to approach her. When u put some thought into how you are going to approach her, it's well worth the time you invested. A woman worth having is a respectable woman.
2. Defines Her Man- A weak woman looks for a man to define her. A Strongly God Woman looks for a man she can stand behind. A Strong woman wants to stand beside you. A good woman brings dignity and definition to a good man.
3. Distinguished From Ordinary Women- Men like sisters who are FINE. But God is trying to tell you that you need a woman that is a good FIND! Good head on her shoulders. Why would you want someone that's fine physically, but out of shape spiritually? Cute can be ugly, in a matter of minutes if she doesn't have anything to talk about. No goals, no aspirations, ain't going no where. She's looking for where u can take her, instead of taking the initiative and blazing her own trail. She should already be on her way somewhere when u meet her. Most guys don't know what a good find is. Most times what you are looking for, ain't what God has in mind for u. You looking at what's behind her, instead of what's ahead of her. When u looking at her lips, you need to be looking at her lifestyle!
Women, the bible says "He Findeth Her," you keep wondering why u keep attracting the wrong type of men, U keep using the same bait. When u become a good find, you become a treasure and you're waiting to be found. Have u ever heard of a treasure screaming hey find me, here I am. Carry yourself with so much dignity, when he's around u he feels like he's in the presence of royalty because there's a treasure in you.
4. Dutiful and Industrious- A woman worth having can take a little and make it something great. Everything she touches will be blessed. She'll work her way up the ladder and become the CEO one day. There's just something about her that ain't going to let her be average. Not an average sister! She knows whose keeping her. And she has the tendency to rise and keep rising and keep rising. If you a man that struggles with a progressively minded woman, put your ego in your pocket. It's ain't no threat to your manhood, So what she makes more money than u. It's a blessing, it ain't gonna hurt u. A woman worth having doesn't mind working. She doesn't want a sugar daddy to stop by, and she turns a few tricks and her bills are paid. She pays her own bills, don't need every Tom, Dick, and Harry running in and out her house!
5. Destined to Prosper- No matter what odds are set against her, a woman worth having is a woman of favor. The bible calls her a good thing. When you're with a woman worth having, good things happen because she is a woman who bares on life, the Favor of God! She know whose keeping her, who woke her up this morning, who clothes her, knows it's God who helps her to work to pay the bills, conscious of the fact that life is filled with ups and downs but through it all she still stands tall. You can't always see her story, because there's so much glory around her. But if she could tell you about her sleepless nights, heartaches, tear stain pillow, and how see smiles at folks that don't like her and walk by them with her head held up. But God holds her through out it all. She'll tell u He opens doors that no man can close! And how through the storms she got stronger, not weaker, she got better, not bitter. At the end of the day, "A woman worth having" is a woman who'll rush to church. And u ain't going to out beat her praising God! She knows it's God that's worthy of all the praise. She isn't worried about her hair, makeup, mascara, pantyhose, or heels. But when she gets to thinking about the goodness of Jesus, even when she didn't have a man. She had the man of ALL man, who was above ALL man. A real man that got on the cross, died, and suffered so she could have life.


Keep the Faith!
Until next time,

~E

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