Transformation Thursday: Hill Harper's Valentine's Day Tips

Clutch Magazine presents Hill Harper's Valentine's Day Tips to building a healthy relationship.  I love Hill Harper and did a EMF Book Review on The Conversation.  I believe he offers sound advice from the male perspective on relationships and loving ourselves first in order to be loved by others. 

"I believe that finding good relationships means first giving good love to ourselves. And I believe that when we give good love to ourselves, we will not settle for less than a righteous and fulfilling relationship. As you give love out, it’s received and reciprocated–and it grows. We must decide whether we are willing to have the courage to do a battle for a new future, and in so doing, realize that the battle is to tame our own hearts and to allow ourselves to be loved.”– Hill Harper, The Conversation

Ten Steps To Build A Healthy Relationship:
1. Let Go of Fear
2. Make him Feel He Can Trust You With His Dreams
3. Put Down the Magnifying Glass and Look In the Mirror
4. Lose Your Heart, But Keep Your Head
5. Be Completely Yourself
6. Be Sincere when it Comes to Apologies and Explanations
7. Share a Vision of Money Goals
8. Leave Your Baggage at The Door
9. Choose to be Accountable. Choose to be Responsible
10. Honor Your Word

In preparing for him, these are very helpful tips to building stronger realtionships that can be utilized when starting something new with someone or celebrating your first Valentine's or 40th Valentine's Day with your SO (significant other).  As for me my Valentine's Day weekend will be spent in NOLA yes New Orleans, LA for Mardi Gras with friends.  I'm loving on me so when he shows up I can show out!!! LOL

Keep the Faith!

Until next time,
~E